https://zodiacfire.com/zodiac-signs-still-single/
So I run across this funny little page and read it. I suppose I am single because I can't hide when I like someone. I am giddy.
So let me get this straight, being happy to see someone= bad.
Feeling cheery around someone=bad
Feeling swoony about a hot guy=bad
Feeling super attracted to someone and not wanting to hide it because you want something to happen= bad
Lighting up when he enters a room= bad
Celebrating him= bad
I know it's sort of a jokey site, but it isn't like I haven't been shut down because of my clear enthusiasm about someone. When you are young you make all the classic mistakes. You are too available, and you are always hanging around. You can't help yourself because he's so dreamy. But no guy I have ever thought was dreamy ever responded with 'Let's date'.
As I got older I guess I would settle for a roll in the hay before he exited stage left, so I could at least get something from him. This is all I could ever really hope for. Sometimes that was even too much. There are guys to this day that I haven't even kissed and felt that I was madly in love with. They were always looking for someone who wasn't me. I got bitter.
But now I read this and think how backward society is. That having positive feelings about someone is a deal breaker. People run away from affection. People shun attraction. It's kind of sick.
It makes me sad.
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