He isn't bad looking. But he only has one pic on his profile so it's most likely fake. He's most likely not in LA either. He writes....
Hi pretty How r u doing ? it's said that men are meant to make the first move Umm , without asking u that i guess ur doing fine ,I'm james i seem to be new to this online thing.Wowowow , I'm sorry if my wowow scares u but i feel like i'm looking at an Heavenly sent right now , Lol . Ok , A question Could this be an Angel? Just a view on your page i feel cool .. some people have nice eyes, some have nice smiles, and some have faces but guess what?.. U have all of them, if angels were to be taxed ,i would be the highest taxpayer just for u ,Oh my Goodness i still can't take off my eyes from your pic , Well i guess i have to leave now , I just hope and pray to get back a message from u . I know i only see your picture i don't really know what your heart looks like but i would like to know thats,if you would like to know more about me as well ....You seem to be very interesting..I'm seeking a relationship Are you?.. you can E m a I l me at ......... xxxxxxxne@gmail.com And if u get my msg just Pls just E m a I l me back on my personal info I left Take care and stay blessed Yours Sincerely,james
not creepy at all.
EYEROLL
Tuesday, May 26, 2015
Sunday, May 10, 2015
We all hate it when....
We are on the net trying to not be stagnate and so we make the effort to meet new people. You see a guy and think 'hey he's cute' and start talking. He has a decent personality. Kind of funny. But lives way out of the area.
There comes a time in a woman's life when she has to stop entertaining the desires of guys, and focus on what her own desires are. Some guys are lonely, or thirsty, and any half decent looking woman looks their way they are all over her. A little too enthusiastic, and want too much too fast.
I watched an episode of CATFISH the other night with some high school kid talking to some gorgeous lady wrestler on line. He wanted to meet her and see what's up. Of course you are hoping he doesn't find out she's a man. She isn't. She is gorgeous like her pictures too. Alarmingly so. Like, why don't you have a line around the block gorgeous. But he has decided he is in love and wants to move in right away and start their lives together. She's like 'hold on there homie, slow your roll.' She was talking sense to him, that friends first and then they have to spend time together. You can't just be in love on the first meeting. He falls apart only hearing rejection. But fast forward a few months, they are flying to see eachother and spending weeks at a time together. So it all worked out.
I feel smothered sometimes when I go out and meet guys. You can smell the desperation on them. They are overly complimentary, and want to see you right away. I am like slow down homie. But when you say that, much like high school dude they see it as rejection.
I met a guy who's pic I liked, and he looked like a crumpled up version of the picture. Not old, just unkempt. I don't like when a guys pics are shaved and he shows up stubbly. Pet peve. Anyway. We had lunch and talked. He was a nice dude, but I wasn't attracted to him in person. I felt bad. He had nice full lips which I like on a man. So I gave him a good bye kiss, but his breath was horrible so I didn't really put much effort into it. He wanted me to visit him at his job 2 hours away on Sunday. He works at a mall, near the beach so I said yes. Not really wanting to spend my whole day travelling to see a guy I'm not particularly attracted to. I would be going through the motions. Faking it for his benefit. He said he would give me a ride home. Which I am sure he would want to kiss, and I don't want to. He lives in that area so I kept seeing 'well I just live down the block, let's hang at my place for a while.' NOPE! I have to stay in my hood when I get to know someone. I made a mistake telling him I would go. I had to back out. I told him I wasn't coming, and I could hear him pout via text. I told him I would make it up to him. I said I had to catch up on some work. (which is true, I have been procrastinating all week, and I'm out of money now) I needed the day to get things in order.
I just really don't want to schlep on dates with guys I have no interest in.
sigh.
There comes a time in a woman's life when she has to stop entertaining the desires of guys, and focus on what her own desires are. Some guys are lonely, or thirsty, and any half decent looking woman looks their way they are all over her. A little too enthusiastic, and want too much too fast.
I watched an episode of CATFISH the other night with some high school kid talking to some gorgeous lady wrestler on line. He wanted to meet her and see what's up. Of course you are hoping he doesn't find out she's a man. She isn't. She is gorgeous like her pictures too. Alarmingly so. Like, why don't you have a line around the block gorgeous. But he has decided he is in love and wants to move in right away and start their lives together. She's like 'hold on there homie, slow your roll.' She was talking sense to him, that friends first and then they have to spend time together. You can't just be in love on the first meeting. He falls apart only hearing rejection. But fast forward a few months, they are flying to see eachother and spending weeks at a time together. So it all worked out.
I feel smothered sometimes when I go out and meet guys. You can smell the desperation on them. They are overly complimentary, and want to see you right away. I am like slow down homie. But when you say that, much like high school dude they see it as rejection.
I met a guy who's pic I liked, and he looked like a crumpled up version of the picture. Not old, just unkempt. I don't like when a guys pics are shaved and he shows up stubbly. Pet peve. Anyway. We had lunch and talked. He was a nice dude, but I wasn't attracted to him in person. I felt bad. He had nice full lips which I like on a man. So I gave him a good bye kiss, but his breath was horrible so I didn't really put much effort into it. He wanted me to visit him at his job 2 hours away on Sunday. He works at a mall, near the beach so I said yes. Not really wanting to spend my whole day travelling to see a guy I'm not particularly attracted to. I would be going through the motions. Faking it for his benefit. He said he would give me a ride home. Which I am sure he would want to kiss, and I don't want to. He lives in that area so I kept seeing 'well I just live down the block, let's hang at my place for a while.' NOPE! I have to stay in my hood when I get to know someone. I made a mistake telling him I would go. I had to back out. I told him I wasn't coming, and I could hear him pout via text. I told him I would make it up to him. I said I had to catch up on some work. (which is true, I have been procrastinating all week, and I'm out of money now) I needed the day to get things in order.
I just really don't want to schlep on dates with guys I have no interest in.
sigh.
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